Let’s Have A Serious Conversation

Do you prefer LOYALTY vs. INTEGRITY 💁? The common choice to many would be LOYALTY and in fact their is absolutely no “RIGHT” or “CORRECT” answer for this particular question. 💡I have learned through life as well as maturity that it is absolutely normal to share different opinions with someone because naturally some may have almost identical situations but yet still not have the same exact outlook on it💡. This is where society as a whole differs because on one hand some may ASSUME that they can change someone’s mind but on the other hand some may try to but understand that it MAY OR MAY NOT happen and will not take it personally. *I AM THE SECOND TYPE OF PERSON*…Either we can agree or agree to DISAGREE respectfully as two mature adults.☺

Growing up I wanted *LOYALTY* in many parts of my life (friendships, romantic relationships, pets, school administrations, employment opportunities, and the list goes on). MATURITY however helped me understand that INTEGRITY is what I should be more invested in. Allow for me to explain my reasoning behind WHY…📝

According to the Merriam Webster 👈link here the definition of “INTEGRITY” is as follow👇

Now let’s see the definition of “LOYALTY” according to Merriam Webster 👈this is the link to it.

: the quality or state or an instance of being loyal

🔏DISCLAIMER🔏

My mind is a extremely rare piece of art along with many others but we allow difficult situations to undermine our TRUE GIFT by feeding our minds with destructive thoughts! 📌For example📌 LOW SELF ESTEEM made me think I was UNWORTHY of LOVE, HAPPINESS, BLESSINGS, GREAT CAREER, MOTHERHOOD, or even ANY TYPE OF POSITIVE COMPLIMENTS FROM ANYONE…The moment I allowed my heart to repair itself, my mind & sight followed as well. I am very thankful because I now see how powerful my mind has become without squinting every 10 seconds👀. Everyone has this awesome exact GIFT 🎁 but in order to reveal it you MUST *BELIEVE* & TAKE THE NECESSARY STEPS TO UNWRAP IT!

MENTAL ILLNESS, TERMINAL ILLNESS, PHYSICAL HEALTH OBSTACLES OR EVEN PERSONAL PROBLEMS ONLY HAVE POWER WHEN WE HAND IT OVER.

Let us now resume…I was recently asked why on earth does everyone claims “LOYALTY BEFORE EVERYTHING”? Realistically anyone can have LOYALTY toward another if he or she is benefiting from it…but the key 🔑 question is WHAT WILL IT BE ONCE YOU ARE HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER?

FOCUS less on who maybe at your table EATING WITH YOU…FOCUS more on who is around after once the food is gone!

Integrity is not given but taught📚…I PERSONALLY RATHER HAVE INDIVIDUALS WHO HAVE IT AT MY TABLE. LET’S HAVE A CONVERSATION💬 COMMENT BELOW…👇📝