Understand Your Preference

I PREFER HAPPINESS OVER PAIN

I PREFER TO KEEP SMILING OVER CRYING MY EYES OUT EVERY NIGHT

I PREFER TO WAIT ON THE RIGHT PERSON OVER SETTLING

I PREFER TO KEEP MOVING FORWARD OVER GIVING IN AND GIVING UP COMPLETELY

I PREFER TO LISTEN FIRST OVER RUNNING OFF AT THE MOUTH

I PREFER TO ASK OVER LIVING IN LIMBO

I PREFER TO FORGIVE OVER HOLDING ON TO RESENTMENT

I PREFER TO LOVE MYSELF FIRST OVER SEEKING LOVE FROM SOMEONE ELSE

I PREFER TO ATTEMPT ACHIEVING ONE GOAL AT A TIME OVER NEVER STARTING TO

I PREFER TO CHASE MY OWN DREAMS OVER CHASING SOMEONE ELSE’S

I PREFER TO NOT LET MYSELF DOWN FIRST OVER LETTING DOWN ANOTHER

I PREFER TO GIVE MY BEST OVER GIVING THE NORM

When it comes to certain things that is in your control make the best of each one. To a handful the task is easier said than done and seems useless but trying is all that we can do.TRYING is within our control and within our realm of possibilities because we all have the power to be exactly who we set out to become in life. Slowly you will start to see that “I PREFER” will turn into “I CHOOSE” which will morph into “I WILL ONLY ACCEPT”. Each keyword is a step up from the last and the finally level is explains where you should be at.

RELATIONSHIPS

When it comes to relationships someone with low self-esteem PREFER whoever may want him or her. After many unsuccessful relationships to avoid another broken heart its common to think more into the previous selections and choose carefully the next time around but due to the past echoing in the background loneliness allow a handful of key actions to slip through the cracks. The question of “WHY AGAIN” starts running continuously in and out your mind until you decide to only “ACCEPT” a specific type that is correct for you. Hopefully, my tiny example can pull everything together🙏. If not let me attempt another example for you.

FRIENDSHIPS

It’s common knowledge that not every single friendship has their own expiration date which consist of a good amount will not grow with you and that’s normal. You may PREFER someone to stay current because of the history of him or her. After a certain number of let downs you may still CHOOSE the person to stay current in your life even though the friendship has shown significant signs of its declining state. The fear of allowing someone else in is due to the constant echoing from the few failed friendships in the past. Isolating yourself from the world doesn’t allow you to ascend higher in life but worse descend lower than you were stationed at before. Allowing certain friendships go will give you a guideline on what to ACCEPT next time around.

Having a PREFERENCE starts the ball rolling and that is also something to be extremely proud of because you are making the necessary steps to progress. That in itself is a great accomplishment!