Posted in Monday-Sunday Inspiration

Trust Your SOUL

Your gut speaks to you but your soul helps sort out what is CORRECT VS. what is FALSE FOR YOU. When certain obstacles stand in your way be sure to sort out the two because nothing last forever and your SOUL will not move you in the wrong direction. In LIFE we tend to tense up with every single discomfort and cave in once things go off before holding in there waiting for the storm to pass and follow your SOUL IN THE CORRECT DIRECTION FOR YOU.

Allow your soul to help you determine what is CORRECT vs. what is FALSE FOR YOU . Never allow your emotions to cloud your judgement and dwell on the *WHAT MAY BE OR NOT MAY BE*. Confidence is a wonderful gift to have possession of because it is not all about your outer beauty but most importantly having confidence in your inner beauty as well. In my opinion inner beauty consist of having FAITH in your God given abilities and refusing to allow someone to speak differently about how “YOU SHOULD FEEL ABOUT EACH OF THEM”. Just because someone has achieved great success in a certain amount of time why should you feel ashamed because its taking you much longer? Success has absolutely no expiration date or deadline and you will get their when the time is correct for YOU. Judging yourself based on someone’s elses LIFE will only create much more stress on yourself. Do you want to be happy or overwhelmed for the rest of your life? 💡The choice is yours to make👉choose confidently and wisely👈!

⏳Quick Remission⏳

Asking questions is the FIRST step in the process of confidently moving forward in life. Just because you have asked does not speak on your intellectual frame of mind or mental state. Asking questions merely means you WANT to move forward vs. GIVING UP & QUITTING altogether. The same exact way you made the decision to speak up and ask the question. Others have the same exact decision to whether reply with an answer/or solution to your question. The next important step that comes after is to not allow one unheard response to keep you in a rut for too long because your determination will not allow you stop moving. Which in a domino effect your SOUL will in fact help you decide whether something is CORRECT FOR YOU OR WHAT IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU.

Putting yourself first doesn’t necessarily mean you are placing others behind you but by concentrating on what is in your best interest and move forward at a certain point you will be able to reach down and help others up. Before you are able to HELP others you must FIRST HELP YOURSELF CONFIDENTLY!

Not only does LIFE have a unique way of humbling you but LIFE also have a way to allow your SOUL to guide you down the correct path for you. Take as much time you need to sit back and gather all of the much needed information you are seeking in order for you to allow your SOUL to guide you wisely based on who you truly are.

PAYING-IT-FORWARD is a motto I gladly take to heart. When you inflict emotional pain or physical abuse on someone without knowing first hand many can only *ASSUME* how it may feel so how can you generally become mad at the person for not understanding how you may feel? In order to fully understand someone emotions you have to be able to see through their lenses. Experiences are the foundation of our LIFE’S JOURNEY.

QUESTION🔉How many have judged another person so quickly in the past but had to pause for a moment when you found yourself in a similar situation? Going backwards solves absolutely nothing and in my personal opinion attempting to do so is absolutely pointless but what you DO HAVE FULL CONTROL OVER IS whether or not you want to take the lesson that was taught to you and use it throughout your LIFE’S JOURNEY and help those who are in a similar situation so that the person can continue the cycle by PAYING IT-FORWARD.

FOLLOW YOUR SOUL & REFUSE TO BREAK CYCLE🚦

Posted in Monday-Sunday Inspiration, VENTING

FLOWERS

Who does not like the gift of flowers? Some people would say “diamonds are the greatest gift to anyone” while many would love to receive diamonds but what can you give when diamonds are way out of a person’s price bracket? I would assume the gift of FLOWERS can work just as well. On many different occasions one can actually expect the gift FLOWERS and those occasions are

  • GRADUATIONS
  • FIRST DATES
  • PROM
  • HOMECOMING
  • BIRTHDAYS
  • LIFE CELEBRATIONS
  • ANNIVERSARIES
  • WEDDINGS
  • OUT OF SYMPATHY FOR A HURTFUL MISTAKE OR MISTAKES
  • FUNERALS

While some of those reasons listed above are positive moments, sadly enough others ARE NOT. Some give flowers to someone who has passed but the ironic part to me most didn’t give flowers to the individual while he/or she was still living!

I actually believe some gifts are much better to EXPERIENCE live, loud, and in COLOR. The type of flowers I am speaking of are TWO DIFFERENT TYPES. Which in fact one of them are known to many but I am uncertain about my second choice being as common as the first.

WHAT DO YOU THINK? *Tell me your thoughts below👂👇*

Why do many wait til the last moment when everything is too late to give the gift of flowers? The three special words “I LOVE YOU”are most appreciated hearing it with the ears of the person who it is actually meant for. Don’t allow the time to run out before giving the person your gift of flowers. What is preventing you now from giving someone NOW their gorgeous bouquet of flowers? Tomorrow is a day that everyone dreads while many wish they could have the opportunity to have a TOMORROW with someone who is no longer with him/or her presently. Your “flowers” can even be a phone call to START a much needed conversation from you to a certain person or a visit that you keep putting off for *TOMORROW* not thinking of the possibility that *TOMORROW* may not come for one or the other. In order for the gift of a gorgeous bouquet of flowers to be truly acknowledged and experienced both parties need to be present.

Please hear me correctly If you were not able to give someone FLOWERS because the person left before you could ever have the chance to and if you could, you most certainly would no questions ask. CONTINUE GIVING EACH PERSON YOUR GIFT OF FLOWERS💐! My focus is on those who have the space & opportunity but rather put it off until tomorrow.

To sum everything up all I am trying to say is if you have flowers to give “DO SO NOW vs. WAITING FOR TOMORROW”. Why wait if you have the space and opportunity to do so now?

Posted in Monday-Sunday Inspiration

Hold On & Enjoy The View

Have you ever felt as if trying to stand up is a lost cause because every single attempt end up with life’s powerful wind strength knocking you back down once again? What’s the use, correct? It may seem like a never-ending ring-a-round ride that you want to hurry rush off of but what happens when you cannot do just that? Do you drive yourself insane when you are not able to control the very situations you so desperately want to? Do you start to allow the negativity to take your mind, body, and soul hostage (which in hindsight WILL MAKE THINGS SO MUCH WORSE)? The reason for my many questions is this👇

Everyone has their own share of hardships, low points, uncomfortable difficulties, painful moments, and overwhelming days but before letting go think of the many people that are looking up to you. By seeing you holding on YOU are giving each one “A Game Plan On Life” booklet to save for a rainy day. For the group of individuals who had a booklet to look back on when life became too much to navigate without a game plan to help. You were very fortunate to be gifted one and its only right to PAY-IT-FORWARD by giving others their own booklet. For the individuals who had no one to give him/or her a booklet look how far you have gotten without one already so why on earth would you want to let go NOW?

Allow the individuals who are watching you experience the same view as you by showing each one how to not only view it but keep holding on to experience the view continuously!

✋SHORT INTERMISSION✋

THANK YOU for pointing it out for me.

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I want to have a serious conversation for a moment with everyone who is reading this. Do you understand that your site is the platform to reach out to the world and showcase your unique one of a kind ability? Your site is a one of kind from the moment you made the choice to set it up. Unless you give away your domain YOUR site unique and one of a kind CREATED JUST FOR YOU. If you decided to create it for your hobby, a specific cause you are strongly passionate about, a business you are just starting, or a business you already established and just want to generate more traffic to toward it. I want you to know that you have already won the competition if you are judging your social media platform vs. the social media platform of others. The moment you made the decision to create your site and did…YOU WON AUTOMATICALLY! Competition is no longer needed because your site is what sets you apart from others. Your domain cannot be duplicated by anyone else but YOU. 💡Think on what I just said💡

🚥👇RESUME BELOW👇🚥

The next time you think of letting go look back and take a mental picture of every person that is looking at you then ask yourself one question “Which type of example do I truly want be in my lifetime and after it”? Before you decide to let go think of this post and hopefully you will tighten your grip!

🍛FOOD FOR THOUGHT🍛

Posted in challenge, Uncategorized

3 DAY QUOTE CHALLENGE

I am honored to be nominated once again for the 3 DAY QUOTE CHALLENGE! This time around another great blogger that goes by the name of 👉Riddhima Penner👈 was so gracious enough to nominate me for the challenge. Click on her name above☝ to check her site out👀. Her site is amazing if I may say so myself…don’t just take my word for it GO SEE FOR YOURSELF!

Let’s jump right into it! My first quote for day one is👇

In the past I was the type of person who would allow setbacks to convince me that trying again was not worth it at all. By not trying again I actually sabotaged my own progress in life. I did blame others for why my life is not moving at the pace I thought it should be. Someone once told me “Every time you point at someone, secretly another finger is pointing back at you”. The reason behind why I made the choice to start the challenge off with this particular quote is I want to help others stop allowing miniature setbacks disrupt their life to the point of becoming paralyze permanently because of the setbacks that maybe hard to swallow and face head on. I would like for anyone who may be reading this answer a few questions for me if you may…

  • DOES A CHILD STOP ATTEMPTING TO WALK BECAUSE HE/or SHE FELL A FEW TIMES?
  • DID YOU GIVE UP ON RECEIVING YOUR HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA/G.E.D. AFTER FAILING A FEW TEST?
  • DID YOU GIVE UP ON MAKING THE TEAM AFTER A FEW FAILED TRIES BEFORE?

DO NOT ALLOW MINOR SETBACKS TO DESTROY YOUR CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF! Even though we may WANT things to happen overnight the reality of everything is basically it has a very slim chance of not happening that quickly. If you are able to weather the storm and keep the same energy of knocking down every single door that refuses to open up for you! 💡THINGS WILL HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO WORK IN YOUR FAVOR BECAUSE YOUR DETERMINATION IS A FORCE TO BE RECKONED WITH!💡People give up all the time to the point of it being the “NORM” in our today society. We all want to stand out in the world as your OWN individual person, correct? HOW ABOUT WE STAND OUT BY REFUSING TO ALLOW OUR SETBACKS GET THE BEST OF US BY GIVING UP ON OURSELVES INDEFINITELY?

  • Stand out by knocking each locked door off the hinges!
  • Stand out by not accepting defeat!
  • Stand out by refusing to hear the word “NO”!
  • Stand out by always walking in FAITH & not by SIGHT!
  • Stand out by showing your doubters (after proving to yourself) that it CAN and WILL be done!
  • Stand out by showing the world doubting YOU was a humongous mistake!
  • Stand out by achieving everything you have set out to do!
  • Stand out by jumping back up each time life has knocked you down!
  • Stand out by killing each hateful person you cross paths with KINDNESS with a the biggest smile that person has ever seen.

MOST IMPORTANTLY STAND OUT BY LOVING WHO YOU ARE NO MATTER WHO MAY NOT!

Riddhima Penner be honest how did I do? Thank you once again for the nomination!

🌟LET THIS MARINATE FOR A MINUTE OR TWO☝☝🌟

MY NOMINATIONS ARE…

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Indishe

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HAVE A GREAT DAY EVERYONE!

Posted in Let's Talk

Be Your Own Type Of “Normal”

Normally, I am a quiet person who keeps to myself. After speaking to others about my insecurities and having almost everything I shared exposed to others with evil intentions…I made the wise decision to share MY TRUTH myself. In the past I believed that others would find me “ODD” and JUDGE before taking the time out to understand me. Which in fact what most people do but I would want to say THANK YOU TO YESMOREBLOGS FOR BEING THE INSPIRATION BEHIND THIS PARTICULAR POST!

How many times do you hear You should be the “BEST *YOU* THAT *YOU* CAN BE”?! The slogan “Be like Mike” is not to be taken to the heart because it makes absolutely no sense to be like someone you barely truly know! You only knows what “MIKE” decides to show you! No matter how close you are with your role model you should inspire to “BE THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE” bottom line.

Instead of being the same as someone else be like a surgeon and dissect their best qualities and shape it to fit the areas you want to improve in your life. My only caution is keep your authenticity intact because YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A LIMITED EDITION ON THIS EARTH.

📝Keep This Little Reminder When You Are Desperately Wanting Another Life Or Worst,WANTING THE LIFE OF SOMEONE ELSE’S📝

  • 📝YOUR LIFE HAS A SPECIFIC PURPOSE THAT NO ONE BUT YOU CAN CARRYOUT📝
  • 📝YOU ARE MEANT TO STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD, NOT BECOME PART OF THE CROWD📝
  • 📝SOMEONE CAN HAVE THE EXACT SAME OUTFITS, HAIRSTYLE, CAREER, CAR, HOUSE, NAME, OR EVEN FRIENDS AS YOU BUT THE ONE MOST IMPORTANT INGREDIENT HE/OR SHE WILL NEVER HAVE IS YOUR HEART📝
  • 📝NO ONE CAN HAVE THE SAME EXACT SOUL OR SPIRIT AS YOU📝

No one can have the same amount of DETERMINATION, DRIVE, COURAGE, WILL-POWER, STRENGTH, FOCUS, OR CONFIDENCE as you! That alone proves how special you are. Be your own type of normal. You are unique and by you trying so desperately to fit in with the crowd you will forget your own identity.

If you feel *normal* do not allow anyone tell you differently!

Posted in Story Time

STORY TIME

Do you recall the children’s book “THE LITTLE ENGINE THAT COULD” written by Watty Piper and illustrator Loren Long? Growing up I actually would have quite often had to been read this book almost more than 300 times no less. Now that I am fully grown I can wholeheartedly appreciate the message behind it.

This book at first seem fun & innocent to children which in all HONESTY this a true statement but after closely analyzing it my personal opinion of the book can be summed up by only one word…💡OPTIMISTIC💡

As a child that word seemed useless because at the age of 3 years old most have no clue a word as such existed let alone can pronounce it correctly. Most children are mostly fascinated by the pictures within the book itself.

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Not only is this book OPTIMISTIC but it is a great motivator for the little ones world wide. As a toddler who was trying to walk without his teacher help I recall another classmate of this little boy named Hank repeating “YOU CAN, YOU CAN!” Hearing the little guy repeating those words brought me back to the book I am speaking of in this post.💡 By the way I was so moved by the encouragement of his classmate. 🌱We can learn so much from the world around us at any age but we first must be open to the lessons around us!🌱

🌱👆FOOD FOR THOUGHT👆

Can anyone name a few children books 📚 that they can think of that are MOTIVATIONAL OR/AND INSPIRING TO THEIR TARGET LITTLE READERS? If so I would love to hear about those books down in the comment section👇📝?

🌞SPEAKING OF CHILDHOOD MEMORIES🌞

👤To Be Honest…I Still Find Time To Speak Into A Fan Just To See If My Robotic Voice Is Still Intact👤 You have to find a way to laugh when you truly want to breakdown to keep pushing yourself forward to for me I will GLADLY find a fan!

Posted in Let's Talk

Do Not Give It Life

I have actually discovered that the things that has kept me down for years is a result of me giving LIFE to the problems. Sounds quite confusing but allow me to explain indepth about my reasons behind the statement.

Many are unaware of the fact that once you give any situation the power to keep you mentally hostage…you have actually allowed it to. This is something I am guilty of also. For many years I kept myself mentally hostage due to certain situations that I was unable to handle. Instead of facing the situation head on I would try to hide from it or numb it down with medication as well alcohol or whatever I felt at the time would make it temporary go away not thinking it may be gone for now but will comeback with vengeance. You cannot enjoy everything the world has to offer in a mental prison that you placed your own self in.

💡ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS!

“Every locked door was once UNLOCKED🔐So it can be open again.”

Even the most skilled captain sometimes lose site of the shore but what makes him stand out from the crew is while the crew run around in panic & despair the captain keeps sailing ⛵ because even though the captain cannot see the shore, the captain knows the shore is out there and determined to reach it.

LIFE is the ship and sometimes due to Depression and/or other obstacles we have lost sight of the shore but instead of acting like the crew of the ship strive to become the CAPTAIN of the ship. Remember the shore is in fact out there whether you can see it or not. Remain focus on your destination instead of focusing on not visibly being able to see.

Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy, Petter Pan, and Cinderella’s Fairy Godmother all have one humongous important factor that many do not pay attention of which is *WE GAVE THEM LIFE*. No child or parent has actually laid eyes neither one or more of them but many kids believe of their existence because society given each one LIFE. It is only when the child discovered for themselves that each one does not exist but at one point he or she did. Still to this day we give each one LIFE by making our children believe and the cycle goes on.

Do you understand how mighty our tongues are? Even motivational speakers proves it as well. When one ask for the crowd to repeat after themselves.

🔊FOR EXAMPLE🔊👇

  • I AM BEAUTIFUL
  • I AM WORTH IT
  • I AM STRONG
  • I AM BRAVE
  • I AM LOVED
  • I AM DETERMINED
  • I AM AMAZING
  • I AM SMART

Think seriously about it. Why he or she make the crowd do it? THERE IS REAL POWER IN THE TONGUE! DO NOT GIVE IT LIFE! Think before you speak vs. Saying it first and thinking after the fact.