MY PLAYLIST

💽A FEW SONGS OFF MY PLAYLIST

The Script ft. Will I A.M “HALL OF FAME”

The Script “SUPERHEROS”

MercyMe “I CAN ONLY IMAGINE”

Carrie Underwood “ALL AROUND-AMERICAN GIRL 

Kelly Clarkson “STRONGER (WHAT DOESN’T KILL YOU)”

India Arie “BREAK THE SHELL”

India Arie “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”

Ledisi “BRAVO”

This is not a complete playlist for myself but it does show how extremely versatile my music choices are. I listen to all types of music from country to rap…I even admire jazz🎼 music as well with no voices only instruments.  I love mostly all types of music🎶. Different moods create my taste of music 💽🎶.
🎼The biggest lesson on creating  a positive state of mind is *BE CAUTIOUS ABOUT THE TYPE OF THINGS YOU TAKE IN*! That includes music 🎶 as well. Just like a song CAN cause you to be in marvelous mood…a song CAN also place you in a rotten mood as well. To keep your focus on the positive track try not to listen to music 🎶 that will start negative thoughts to formulate in your mind. For instance certain songs trigger severe painful thoughts that I am so strongly fighting against. 

The songs that cause me to reminiscence about my past major traumatic relationship I do not dare listen to them because it puts me in a deeply dark hole for many days after or I would start doing things I rarely actually do. As the years roll pass it has begun to get a tad bit better but not completely forgotten. 

In order to stay on this particular journey of my life I dismiss certain things that would interfere with my progress. Being openly honest with myself as well as my soul & mind it’s perfectly fine to understand I myself isn’t there yet but mark my words 📆 I WILL EVENTUALLY GET THERE SOON ENOUGH😀. So keep that in mind when you are seeking music selections to listen to.🎼  
💡IF YOU HAVE DO NOT MIND I WOULD LOVE💕TO HEAR THE TYPES OF MUSIC EVERYONE ELSE MAY LISTEN TO DOWN HERE 👇IN THE 📝COMMENTS SECTION! 🎶ARTIST NAMES, SONG TITLES, MUSIC TYPES ARE ALL WELCOME HERE🎶💡

 Correct Your Vision

What I see on numerous occasions (including myself in the past) many 👀 see their life as “CURSED” negativity speaking. After continually being knockdown by life assuming  this is normal but far from the truth and allow me to explain my reasoning for my statement. Two people can be looking at the same  exact cloud but have TWO different opinions on the resemblance of it. One may see 👀 the resemblance of a heart while the other 👀 see the resemblance of a horseshoe. As a whole individuals who wear glasses DO NOT have the same written prescription as everyone else. We all have different eyesight…HE may have 20/20 while she may have 20/17. Nobody sees 👀 the same things in the exact same way. However IF by chance you run into someone who does consider yourself *BLESSED* because rarely that actually does happen.

Speaking of the word “BLESSED” I am hoping someone can actually get something useful from the message I am trying intensely to get across. Bare with me because I am just getting started😉. 
I have learned many lessons throughout my life and in the act of “PAYING IT FORWARD” I have a duty in life to help others who are in the pitch dark place I once was at guiding others with the same exact flashlight🔦that I was led out with hoping the cycle will continue & we can keep passing the flashlight🔦 on to the next person who is led out by it. One individual can start something but it takes society as a whole to make a difference. Do anyone recall the saying “It Takes A Village To Raise A Child”? If that is exactly what it takes…how can one person change anything by themselves?

💡In honor of the great M.L.K. he started the change but it took others to keep his “I HAVE A DREAM” alive after his death to impact humanity in a powerful way to have no other choice but to see differently because the majority of those who did  overpowered the selected few who did not💡.*THERE IS GREAT STRENGTH IN NUMBERS…ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS* 💪

The lesson I want to get across is the power is always in your court even if it may look differently. You have the ability to adjust your vision to see 👀 the things you want to take place. Even if you cannot make others see 👀 your vision right now or even some you may never have certain people see 👀 your vision at all…keep your focus & later on the majority who can will overpower the individuals cannot. You can only  adjust your OWN vision not the vision of OTHERS. 

  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀 AS A CURSE…YOU SHOULD SEE 👀 IT AS A BLESSING
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀 AS A DISTRACTION…YOU SHOULD SEE 👀AS A OBSTACLE THAT CAN BE CONQUERED
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀AS A WASTE…YOU SEE 👀 AS A GIFTED MUCH NEEDED TIME
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀 AS A BURDEN…YOU SHOULD SEE 👀 AS A STEPPING STONE
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀 AS IMPOSSIBLE…YOU SHOULD SEE👀 IT AS POSSIBLE
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀AS A HARDSHIP…YOU SHOULD SEE 👀 IT AS HOPE 
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀 AS POINTLESS…YOU SHOULD SEE IT AS A PRIORITY
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀 AS TOO MUCH…YOU SHOULD SEE IT AS MANAGEABLE
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE 👀AS COMPLETELY BROKEN…YOU SHOULD SEE IT AS SEVERELY CRACKED
  • WHAT OTHERS SEE AS HELPLESS…YOU SHOULD SEE IT AS A CHALLENGE


 BUT BEFORE YOU CAN CORRECT and/or ADJUST SOMEONE ELSE’S VISION, CONCENTRATE ON  CORRECTING and/or ADJUST YOUR OWN FIRST!!!

For Everyone…



  • FOR EVERYONE who are walking around as if you didn’t cry yourself asleep the night before…
  • For everyone who is going to work as if you have absolutely no problems to the ones around you…
  • FOR EVERYONE who has to fake a smile when you honestly just  want to curl up in a corner somewhere…
  • For everyone who is battling a war no one else know about…
  • FOR EVERYONE who wants to run away from life…
  • FOR EVERYONE who feels like everything & everyone is against you…
  • FOR EVERYONE who is trying to hold on with all your strength…
  • FOR EVERYONE who feels as if nothing will ever go right in life…
  • FOR EVERYONE  who is struggling just to get by…
  • FOR EVERYONE who just want to be put out of their misery…
  • For everyone who is battling health problems…
  • FOR EVERYONE who feels that living is not worth it anymore…
  • FOR EVERY WOMAN that suffered numerous miscarriages and/or still borns…
  • FOR EVERYONE that has loss their child. (including fathers as well)
  • FOR EVERYONE that feels hopeless, abandon, useless,  unlovelovef fromd/ or powerless…
  • FOR EVERYONE that feels you are way too damaged to seek romantic love…

                        KEEP FIGHTING

                      KEEP BELIEVING

                      KEEP pushing forward

                     KEEP wanting 

                     KEEP your faith

                     KEEP praying

                   KEEP yourself motivated

    The Unique Blogger Award

    THANK YOU SO MUCH Scarlettsbpdcorner for the nomination I am beyond grateful for it. She is a new blogger who speaks out about her Mental Health journey which I am extremely proud that she is letting her voice out by her creating this wonderful BLOG! 

     SHE HAS MANY DIFFERENT TALENTS PLEASE CHECK OUT HER PAGE👆

    My Three Questions are…

    1. QUESTION= Why did you choose the avatar you have? ANSWER= You will see that I change my avatar every so often but every avatar I change into is reflection of how I actually see myself as. ( I am a African American young adult woman who rocks her actual natural hair from time to time😂.)
    2. QUESTION= Do you choose to share your blogging experience with people you know in real life & if so to what extent? ANSWER= Only a selective few actually knows because I actually started blogging many years ago. *To be exact 8 years ago was when I first started💻✒.*
    3. QUESTION= Do you think your blogger persona differs from your real life personality? ANSWER= Yes & No because everything is coming from my past experiences. There is a time and a place for everything so if someone is confiding in me about something that I have dealt with then I will share in order to point out the person is not alone. Now, I have had my share of “FAKE FRIEND” many who would use my past against me as if I should feel ashamed or allow it to screw me up mentally as well as emotionally. I will ever give anyone the satisfaction of seeing me breakdown publicly but if he/she has I will never stay down for too long despite my actual emotions. 


      Disclaimer-I made that mistake plenty of times and screwed up my trust with males and females. This is something I am YET STILL WORKING ON👫.  Maturity has taught me that staying guarded all time is pointless & in order to break the cycle I must come to terms with the TRUTH…which is certain individuals will in fact hurt you as well as treat you horribly. That is a known fact & despite how I may  have treated him/or her my intentions was pure. “HURT PEOPLE, HURT PEOPLE” because of that I want to break that cycle and just because someone treated me horribly I have no right to inflict pain on anyone as if the person had prior knowledge of the numerous reasons I am upset. Whatever is going on in my personal life should not affect the way I am with a complete stranger because the same applies to him/ or her. I have absolutely no clue what maybe going on with their personal life. WHY WOULD I WANT TO ADD TO THEIR PROBLEMS?! I am  DETERMINE TO BREAK THE CYCLE!


      I NOMINATE…

      1. DREAWATA
      2. WHITNEY
      3. HHHIGH
      4. JAMES
      5. REVENGE OF EVE
      6. MARSHALL
      7. LEARNING TO LOVE ME
      8. MJTD

        My 3 question are

        • When did you first start blogging?
        • What motivated you to start your page?
        • Which season do you like the most?

        RULES: 

        • Share the link of the blogger who has shown love to you by nominating you.
        • Answer the questions.
        • In the spirit of sharing love and solidarity with our blogging family, nominate 8-13 people for the same award.
        • Ask them 3 questions.

                       PASS IT ON!


        SEARCHING 

        Whenever I am at my lowest the greatest SIGN I receive is complete strangers speak words of encouragement! Most would think I am just piecing any little thing together to carry on forward even though my knees are cut down to the bone. (Which is true indeed because quitting is not in my D.N.A.💪) But honestly the words of complete strangers do indeed happen. This has been so much a reoccurring cycle that I find myself not getting so worked up and breathe before anything fly out of my mouth. I do not go overboard so swiftly anymore. When I think mess is going to hit the fan someone I have never met before speak on my “Ora Color” or speak on my “Big Heart💛” or “Bright Smile😀”. 

        Here are some of the reasons why I see all of those comments from complete strangers as SIGNS”.

        • Most times I have came outside and started my day after crying my eyes out all night…So the fact a complete stranger can comment on how  bright my smile is vs. how heavy & puffy my eyes are blows me out of the water. I can see someone who is familiar with me say such a thing to make me feel a certain way. Most strangers would either smile with no words or not even pay me absolutely no mind at all. 
        • Most would say after knowing me for awhile I have a humongous heart💛….But for a complete stranger to speak on me being as such at first impression leaves me speechless. When at first my friends told me I gave off the impression of being a “cold hearted” individual. 

        I have decided to take things as it comes believing the entire time *I CAN, I WILL, & I HAVE*! Eventually having the FAITH TO PROUDLY SAY “AND I DID”!

        Throughout the years I have became my own personal Super Hero, Motivational Speaker, Hype Man, Prayer Warrior, One Man Army, #1 Fan, & more! The list goes on especially after each minor/major obstacle I overcome new titles appear in front of my name📝.  In my last post titled “Do I”  I asked myself if I love myself enough to understand its not about what someone may call me but the only thing that actually matters is what I allow myself to answer back to. 

        I wish more individuals would understand that specific 🔑 point because a lot of unnecessary drama would be avoided and more open opportunities would be open for the taking!  I am just being honest because that issue was one of mine and once I was able to understand if I found a issue with the name I was being referred as sooner or later my silence and failure to acknowledge the person would convince him or her to try another name IF my acknowledgement was truly needed.  
        Since I received my 🔜 *SIGN* YESTERDAY & in the spirit of “PAY IT FORWARD” I want to give anyone that is desperately looking for theirs…allow me to give you the sign you are seeking 👀

        This is for everyone that is fighting Depression, Anxiety or anything associated with a mental health diagnosis…👇

        If you are feeling as if that fear is suffocating you…this is for you 👇

        PERFECTION DOES NOT EXIST👇

        If you feel as if the you are tired of trying to push through this is for you👇

        Take your power back👇

        Keep going👇

        Whichever relate the most to you THESE ARE YOUR SIGNS OR SIGN! 

        HOPEFULLY YOUHAVE SPOT YOUR *SIGN*!🔎🔭

        Do I…

        For a long time I could not answer the question many ask themselves “DO I LOVE MYSELF ENOUGH?”

        1. Enough to love myself after having someone else mistreat me?
        2. Enough to refuse to accept anything less than what I know I deserve?
        3. Enough to settle?
        4. Enough to live unapologetically with or without the acceptance of others?
        5. Enough to challenge myself physically, emotionally, and spiritually?
        6. Enough to love myself even if many do not have the same type of love for me?
        7. Enough to rise again after each time life knocks me down?
        8. Enough to forgive others who have done wrong by me?
        9. Enough to understand I am not a perfect person & acknowledge I am not?
        10. Enough to let the past go & concentrate on the future in order to make it better than the past?
        11. Enough to “THINK” before I “SPEAK” out of my mouth?
        12. Enough to “turn the other cheek”?
        13. Enough to not pass judgement on others as if I am the Judge as well as the Jury?
        14. Enough to understand it’s not what THEY call me, its only what I myself answer to?
        15. Enough to see past my failures & see them as only stepping stones to something much greater?
        16. Enough to want only the best for myself?
        17. Enough for admitting I do have flaws but not allowing my flaws to define me?
        18. Enough to understand everything do not need a response?
        19. Enough to constantly see the rainbow after each storm I enter into?
        20. Enough to respect the person I am so that others can follow my lead? 
        21. Enough to walk away gracefully from anything that is not for me?
        22. Enough to not allow anything toxic around my personal space or in my circle?
        23. Enough to learn from my mistakes in order to not repeat the cycle?
        24. Enough to know “crying is not a sign of weakness”?
        25. Enough to allow my FATHER to remove anything that is not for me out of my life?
        26. Enough to allow *Jesus to take the wheel*?
        27. Enough to no longer allow others to dictate my feelings and/or emotions? 
        28. Enough to see my beauty even if my mind want me to “THINK” differently?
        29. Enough to see the positive in every situation?
        30. Enough to put forth the effort each & every morning?


        It took me a very long to become the person I am now. Many nights I found myself finding every excuse there can be under the moon to avoid answering the questions I have posted above. Being able to now answer each one motivated me to see that I am indeed headed in the right direction & stay in this positive headspace at all cost! I spoken about “🔜SIGNS🔜” in the past and being able to answer the questions was A HUGE ONE!


        Now is the time to ask your own self the same exact questions or write📝your own set of questions….DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH? Comment below👇 to share a few of your answers💬 with me. I am all ears👂!!!

        DO NOT WALK, RUN & CHASE YOUR DREAMS

        I am actually writing this to have the individuals who CAN relate to me & and even individuals who MAY NOT. The YEAR 2017 has ended, meanwhile the YEAR 2018 has began. With every ending something will always start and that is a KNOWN FACT. That is why I can proudly say someone may FEEL as if nothing in their life is going well… my advice to him/or her is CONTINUE TO HOLD ON A LITTLE BIT LONGER, the problems you are now facing has a ending date and that is coming sooner than you know. Most people want FAST RESULTS and I understand that but at the same time somethings cannot be rushed in order for satisfied results to take place. For example…most marinate their dishes in order to successfully taste the richest of ingredients that the cook wants to get across. In certain situations in order to get the full effect of something we most allow it to marinate for awhile. Especially if we want to receive the full effect of it!


        To all the popcorn lovers out there…what happens if we pull the bag out before the time is done on the microwave? We would not recieve what we truly want because we lack PATIENCE. Things do not happen when you THINK it should; Things happen when you put in the necessary blood, sweat, & tears with much needed PATIENCE as well as DISCIPLINE & DETERMINATION. If you do not want it bad enough, it will not happen. This is a lesson I had to learn because I would want something to happen without taking the necessary STEPS to make sure it happened. I was knowingly allowing my blessings to slip right on by without realizing THE ISSUE WAS MYSELF! 

        If you want something to happen in your life don’t just want it *CRAVE IT*! Run after your dreams with full force under each step…refuse to look back if you may think it will slow you down. For instance, when I look back I see everything I REFUSE to run back into or let catch up to me. The greatest thing about my personality is this… instead of looking back in regret I look back and see the situations I OVERCAME & allow that to MOTIVATE ME TO ACHIEVE EVERY GOAL I CREATE FOR MYSELF💪. 
        Everyone has a story and the only thing that sets us apart is what we because of  it. 

        *For example* The #ME TOO origin started 10 years ago with the activist Tarana Burke. This has been out for years but only started getting publicized recently. (Google the name Tarana Burke and comment below your findings💬👇) 

        *For Example* Steve Harvey was homeless for 3 years living out of his car before getting to the place he is currently at now. I recall watching the show where he spoke to the elderly couple who  gave him a place to sleep and helped him travel to comedy shows at that particular time in his life. It does bring me to tears each time I watch it😭.   Here is the link to it👈(credited to YouTube) In Steve Harvey voice “I GOT MONEY NOW”! Comment below and give me your input on this particular topic👇💬.
        Figure out what your dreams are & once you have “Do Not Walk, RUN & CHASE YOUR DREAMS”!